“I just hate how he..” “I wish she would…” “I can’t believe how awful I look…”
The negativity begins at home, with you. Anyone ever say someone is “awfully good at…”? If awful is bad, and good is, well good, then the whole meaning becomes a big fat zero with both words in the same thought. It’s just too easy to be negative, to be down, to be critical some times. And lots of you grew up with it and don’t think twice about spreading it. Think again.
Isn’t it time to try really hard to make yourself and those around you positive, upbeat and cheerful? It takes more guts, more masculinity, more strength, more “nerve,” more humanness to be upbeat and spread it around. You don’t have to be a salesman to be outgoing; you just have to love yourself first.
Get acquainted with yourself. Sit alone and think about it. You are all you have, finally, in the world you find yourself in right now. You are unique. If you feel love from others, from one other, then you love yourself no matter how much you may not believe that. So all you have to do is let the love out, let it embrace you, and you literally won’t believe how much better you feel about everything and everyone. You have to take the first step, that’s all. Sit alone and think – think of the person who loves you – no, no-one has to love anyone else (even though we all do), so if anyone does love you then you can feel free to love yourself (‘cause you do anyway) and just let it be. Let it be.
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